Although I spell out a bit more about myself below, it is important to say that just because you might have a differing identity to mine, that does not mean we can’t work together. I work with an array of people with differing identities and experiences, and you can learn more about how I work on my Specialities page and in the FAQs.

Who I am

• I am Queer

• I am Trans, Non-Binary and Gender Queer

• I am Disabled (EDS and deaf)

• I practice Non-Monogamy/Polyam

• I am Neurodivergent (AuDHD)

• I have been part of the kink community for 10+ years

• I am an Immigrant

• I am an Activist.

The main influences for me in becoming a sex and relationship therapist were:

• Wanting to understand my own relationships, with myself and others, and discovering who I am and what I need as a person with the above identities. Having my own sex and relationship therapist opened doors to a world that I didn’t know I needed. It is a privilege to have that experience and find something that I am so passionate about doing for myself and others.

• My background of over ten years as an organiser for various sex and queer positive events, namely as a core organiser for Kinky Salon London and SummerHouse Weekend, and a co-founder of Sparkle Hard London. Running workshops on consent and communicating boundaries, facilitating support groups, moderating difficult conversations and accountability processes, and learning how people navigate pleasure and relationships led me to want to make something similar into my job.

I am constantly learning and adapting with regular continued education in the areas I specialise in.

I am also open to speaking at events or on podcasts, writing for publications or working on longer-term projects - if you think I might be a good fit for your project, contact me!

See my profile on Pink Therapy, National Ugly Mugs, Kink Aware Professionals, Neurodivergent Practitioners, Poly Friendly Professionals, Psychology Today.